Share Your Stories of Encouraging an Elder to Dream Outloud June 30, 2009
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Well, please tell me about your experience with encouraging a parent or elder friend to dream out loud. I, for one, am listening close…
Eighty-Nine and Feeling Fine June 30, 2009
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Charlie, 89 years old, has been a widower for two years. He continues to live alone, with his bedroom on the second floor, cooking small meals for himself. . An interesting thing happened recently while I was visiting my 87 and 90 year old parents who live across the street from Charlie.
My folks and I were sitting on the lawn swing, when Charlie ventured across the street to join us. After casual chatting for a while about the “usual things”, my Mom, who’s been very attentive to the development of Ageless Dreamer, blurted out: “So, Charlie, do you have a dream?” Lo and behold, Charlie mumbled a little about having done “pretty much” everything he wanted to do in his life. “Just a little lonely now that Claire is gone.” He had cared for his wife at home for four years before she died from Alzheimer’s. Do the neighbors next to you every visit?, I asked. “Nope. Not even a wave. They’re 30-something year olds. Don’t care or even notice. Just your folks, here. Your Mom makes a little extra food for meals and brings me over a plate. And your Dad – well, he mows my lawn with his tractor, and when he opens the barn door there I know it’s ok for me to come over and sit and visit awhile.”
With the silence hanging a little heavy on the squeaking swing, I decided to see if I could keep the conversation going light and alive, so I asked Charlie: What did you used to do together with Claire? He turned his head to look at me and a gentle grin appeared on his face as he said, much to the surprise of even my parents: “Bowl”.
And he wasn’t talking about a bowl of cereal. And now you know the rest of the story … will be in my first book!
Copyright Laurie Widmark 2009
When I Dream, I’m Ageless June 30, 2009
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Last night I might have been ageless, but I couldn’t sleep so I didn’t dream. I was writing in my mind the story of an untold dream. This morning, sitting at my computer, the white page syndrome stared right back at me as I could see my own reflection in the screen. Maybe I should Twitter instead.
Ageless Dreamer at Seacoast Local Festival June 17, 2009
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On June 6th, 2009 Ageless Dreamer participated in the Fourth Annual Seacoast Local Festival featuring local nonprofits. Special thanks to our volunteers Ellie W. and Brenda C. representing Ageless Dreamer at this event.
Ageless Dreamer has a team of Dream Savers June 15, 2009
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When the going gets tough, the tough get going. Remember that saying? Well, Ageless Dreamer has been given a boost of needed energy by a group that calls themselves “Your Dream Savers“. They knit, crochet, sew, and other handmade items — and then sell them at various events — all in an effort to donate funds to Ageless Dreamer. This is a special thank you to this special group who encourage us to continue to dream dreams that are too big to fill alone.
George Carlin on Aging and Staying Young May 29, 2009
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IF YOU DON’T READ THIS TO THE VERY END, YOU HAVE LOST A DAY IN YOUR LIFE. AND WHEN YOU HAVE FINISHED, DO AS I AM DOING AND SEND IT ON.
George Carlin’s Views on Ageing
Do you realise that the only time in our lives when we like to get old is when we’re kids? If you’re less than 10 years old, you’re so excited about ageing that you think in fractions.
‘How old are you?’ ‘I’m four and a half!’ You’re never thirty-six and a half. You’re four and a half, going on five! That’s the key
You get into your teens, now they can’t hold you back. You jump to the next number, or even a few ahead.
‘How old are you?’ ‘I’m gonna be 16!’ You could be 13, but hey, you’re gonna be 16! And then the greatest day of your life …. . You become 21. Even the words sound like a ceremony. YOU BECOME 21. YESSSS!!!
But then you turn 30. Oooohh, what happened there? Makes you sound like bad milk! He TURNED; we had to throw him out. There’s no fun now, you’re Just a sour-dumpling. What’s wrong? What’s changed?
You BECOME 21, you TURN 30, then you’re PUSHING 40. Whoa! Put on the brakes, it’s all slipping away. Before you know it, you REACH 50 and your dreams are gone.
But wait!!! You MAKE it to 60. You didn’t think you would!
So you BECOME 21, TURN 30, PUSH 40, REACH 50 and MAKE it to 60.
You’ve built up so much speed that you HIT 70! After that it’s a day-by-day thing; you HIT Wednesday!
You get into your 80’s and every day is a complete cycle; you HIT lunch; you TURN 4:30 ; you REACH bedtime. And it doesn’t end there Into the 90s, you start going backwards; ‘I Was JUST 92.’
Then a strange thing happens. If you make it over 100, you become a little kid again. ‘I’m 100 and a half!’
May you all make it to a healthy 100 and a half!!
HOW TO STAY YOUNG
1. Throw out nonessential numbers. This includes age, weight and height. Let the doctors worry about them. That is why you pay ‘them’
2. Keep only cheerful friends. The grouches pull you down.
3. Keep learning. Learn more about the computer, crafts, gardening, whatever. Never let the brain idle. ‘An idle mind is the devil’s workshop.’ And the devil’s name is Alzheimer’s.
4. Enjoy the simple things.
5. Laugh often, long and loud. Laugh until you gasp for breath.
6. The tears happen. Endure, grieve, and move on. The only person, who is with us our entire life, is ourselves. Be ALIVE while you are alive.
7. Surround yourself with what you love , whether it’s family, pets, keepsakes, music, plants, hobbies, whatever. Your home is your refuge.
8. Cherish your health: If it is good, preserve it. If it is unstable, improve it. If it is beyond what you can improve, get help.
9. Don’t take guilt trips. Take a trip to the mall, even to the next county; to a foreign country but NOT to where the guilt is.
10. Tell the people you love that you love them, at every opportunity.
AND ALWAYS REMEMBER :
Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.
And if you don’t send this to at least 8 people – who cares? But do share this with someone. We all need to live life to its fullest each day!!

Thank You For Being a Part of Our UNO Success! May 28, 2009
Posted by Ageless Dreamer Foundation in Events.Tags: dream, Uno Chicago Grill, Measured Progress, Rotarians, Foster's Daily Democrat, Riverside Rest Home
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Ageless Dreamer would like to thank all our members and supporters of our unique mission for their time, help, and inspiring attitude at our recent EAT for the DREAM event at Uno Chicago Grill on May 12. Special thanks to Ellie White and her co-workers from Measured Progress; Brenda Clement and friends for their recently formed Dream Savers group to Fundraise for the Dream; Martee Crowley (Murals & More By Martee) who generously donated hand-painted wine glasses for the silent auction; Abby Deely who reminded others to call in for Take Out orders; fellow Rotarians; friends from Foster’s Daily Democrat; faithful Board Members; and Riverside Rest Home for providing the transportation for Lura Johnson – who will turn 103 years old at the end of May.
Your energetic presence and encouragement had a generous impact on the success of this friend and fundraising event. On behalf of those who continue to dream out loud, we extend deep appreciation from the bottom of our ageing toes for all your efforts. We sure enjoyed doing it with you!






