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Share Your Stories of Encouraging an Elder to Dream Outloud June 30, 2009

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Well, please tell me about your experience with encouraging a parent or elder friend to dream out loud. I, for one, am listening close…

Eighty-Nine and Feeling Fine June 30, 2009

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Charlie, 89 years old, has been a widower for two years. He continues to live alone, with his bedroom on the second floor, cooking small meals for himself. . An interesting thing happened recently while I was visiting my 87 and 90 year old parents who live across the street from Charlie.

My folks and I were sitting on the lawn swing, when Charlie ventured across the street to join us. After casual chatting for a while about the “usual things”, my Mom, who’s been very attentive to the development of Ageless Dreamer, blurted out: “So, Charlie, do you have a dream?” Lo and behold, Charlie mumbled a little about having done “pretty much” everything he wanted to do in his life. “Just a little lonely now that Claire is gone.” He had cared for his wife at home for four years before she died from Alzheimer’s. Do the neighbors next to you every visit?, I asked. “Nope. Not even a wave. They’re 30-something year olds. Don’t care or even notice. Just your folks, here. Your Mom makes a little extra food for meals and brings me over a plate. And your Dad – well, he mows my lawn with his tractor, and when he opens the barn door there I know it’s ok for me to come over and sit and visit awhile.”

With the silence hanging a little heavy on the squeaking swing, I decided to see if I could keep the conversation going light and alive, so I asked Charlie: What did you used to do together with Claire? He turned his head to look at me and a gentle grin appeared on his face as he said, much to the surprise of even my parents: “Bowl”.
And he wasn’t talking about a bowl of cereal. And now you know the rest of the story … will be in my first book!
Copyright Laurie Widmark 2009

When I Dream, I’m Ageless June 30, 2009

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Last night I might have been ageless, but I couldn’t sleep so I didn’t dream. I was writing in my mind the story of an untold dream. This morning, sitting at my computer, the white page syndrome stared right back at me as I could see my own reflection in the screen. Maybe I should Twitter instead.

Ageless Dreamer at Seacoast Local Festival June 17, 2009

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On June 6th, 2009 Ageless Dreamer participated in the Fourth Annual Seacoast Local Festival featuring local nonprofits. Special thanks to our volunteers Ellie W. and Brenda C. representing Ageless Dreamer at this event.

Volunteers Ellie W. and Brenda C. and Administrative Assistant for the Ageless Dreamer Nataliya A (in the middle)

Volunteers Ellie W. and Brenda C. and Administrative Assistant for the Ageless Dreamer Nataliya A (in the middle)

Inspired by a Jump from the Sky June 15, 2009

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Way to go, former President  George Herbert Walker Bush!  You showed the world an alternative way to grow older.  You were dreaming out loud and had the courage to make it happen.  You ARE a perfect example of an Ageless Dreamer and what we’re all about.  We salute you!

Ageless Dreamer has a team of Dream Savers June 15, 2009

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When the going gets tough, the tough get going. Remember that saying? Well, Ageless Dreamer has been given a boost of needed energy by a group that calls themselves “Your Dream Savers“. They knit, crochet, sew, and other handmade items — and then sell them at various events — all in an effort to donate funds to Ageless Dreamer. This is a special thank you to this special group who encourage us to continue to dream dreams that are too big to fill alone.

Crowd marvels at President Bush’s drop from the sky June 15, 2009

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By SHAWN P. SULLIVAN
Copyright Permission by Foster’s Daily Democrat

KENNEBUNKPORT, Maine — Someone looked up into the sky and declared, “There he is!”

Everyone turned their attention to the clouds, from which former President George Herbert Walker Bush materialized and descended toward the earth with the grace only a parachute could provide.

The crowd clapped and cheered when Bush touched ground on a landing zone behind St. Ann’s Church on Ocean Avenue in Kennebunkport. A few of them had taken pictures to capture the event and share with family and friends back home.

Wait a minute.

Not so fast.

Moments later, another person in the crowd once again directed everyone’s gaze to the skies. There, dotted against the parting clouds, were several more daredevils parachuting through the sky, whipsawing through the air at occasional sharp angles.

There looked to be about three of them at first. Then four or five. After more looking around and counting, the consensus of the crowd was that there were eight parachutes in the sky.

If that first jumper wasn’t Bush, then which one of the eight above was he?

Josh Carpenter, of San Antonio, Texas, had no problem picking out which one was the 41st president of the United States. He had a camera with a strong zoom-in lens and spotted Bush through the eyepiece. As the parachute in question drew even closer, the crowd could discern that it was the only one in the sky carrying two people. Sure enough, the press had reported earlier that Bush would be making a tandem jump from the plane.

Former President George H. W. Bush rides tandem with Sgt. Michael Elliott of the Army Golden Knights parachute team as he celebrates his 85th birthday with a parachute jump, Friday, June 12, 2009, over Kennebunkport, Maine. (AP Photo/Army Golden Knights, SSG Joe Abeln)

Former President George H. W. Bush rides tandem with Sgt. Michael Elliott of the Army Golden Knights parachute team as he celebrates his 85th birthday with a parachute jump, Friday, June 12, 2009, over Kennebunkport, Maine. (AP Photo/Army Golden Knights, SSG Joe Abeln)

Bush turned 85 years old on Friday and celebrated the milestone with a feat of daring that he already had famously accomplished a handful of times before. He leaped 10,500 feet from a plane and made a parachute jump. A member of the United States Army’s Golden Knights made the jump with him.

All five of Bush’s children — including his son, former President George W. Bush — greeted him when he landed. So, too, did former first ladies Barbara and Laura Bush, as well as 14 grandchildren, two brothers and a sister.

On Friday morning, it almost looked as though the jump would have to wait for the next day. The region woke up to heavy showers. At around noon, though, the clouds lightened and parted, and shortly before Bush touched ground at 1:30 the day turned hot, bright and sunny.

These parachute jumps have become a tradition for Bush as he’s made his way through his golden years. He jumped to mark his 75th and 80th birthdays as well. He last jumped in November 2007 at the reopening of his library at Texas A&M University.

The first time he jumped from a plane, though, he did not have fellow Americans cheering below to greet him. Instead, as a young Navy pilot, he parachuted from his plane when it was shot down over the Pacific Ocean during World War II.

After Friday’s jump, Bush told reporters that he had two reasons for taking the birthday plunge: he wanted to experience the feeling of free-falling, and he wanted to prove that senior citizens can stay active and have fun.

“Just because you’re an old guy, you don’t have to sit around drooling in the corner,” he said. “Get out and do something. Get out and enjoy life.”

An hour before the jump, local police blocked off a stretch of Ocean Avenue for security. Onlookers caught Bush’s jump from the nearby beach and getty, from benches along the sidewalk, and from perches on high, jagged rocks that met the creeping tide of the ocean.

Peter Reed, of Hypoluxo Island in South Florida, was in Kennebunkport with his family to celebrate his in-laws’ 50th wedding anniversary.

“This was a surprise for us,” he said of Bush’s moment in the sky. “It’s pretty exciting.”

Reed’s son, Peter, who skipped stones across the waves during the event’s down time, said Bush’s jump was “really cool.” At 10 years old, the younger Reed had not yet come into the world when the elder Bush served as president from 1988 to 1992.

Jason Heinz, of Chesapeake, Ohio, was in Kennebunkport on Friday with his wife, Jennifer, and many of his cousins. This year, they picked Maine. He, too, was surprised to learn in one of the local newspapers that Bush was planning to jump from a plane.

“That’s something you don’t see every day, an 85-year-old ex-president jumping out of the sky,” he said. “You don’t see that in Ohio very much.”

At least two of the onlookers on the rocks hailed from even farther than Ohio or Florida — Hans and Turid Christensen were from the country of Norway. The Christensens had been vacationing in Canada but figured they’d swoop down into the United States for a couple days.

Hans Christensen called Bush’s moment “beautiful.”

Staring across the water to the reception taking place where Bush landed, Christensen added, “It’s fantastic, at 85 years old to be doing that. He must be some president.”

George Carlin on Aging and Staying Young May 29, 2009

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IF YOU DON’T READ THIS TO THE VERY END, YOU HAVE LOST A DAY IN YOUR LIFE. AND WHEN YOU HAVE FINISHED, DO AS I AM DOING AND SEND IT ON.

George Carlin’s Views on Ageing

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Do you realise that the only time in our lives when we like to get old is when we’re kids? If you’re less than 10 years old, you’re so excited about ageing that you think in fractions.

‘How old are you?’ ‘I’m four and a half!’ You’re never thirty-six and a half. You’re four and a half, going on five! That’s the key

You get into your teens, now they can’t hold you back. You jump to the next number, or even a few ahead.

‘How old are you?’ ‘I’m gonna be 16!’ You could be 13, but hey, you’re gonna be 16! And then the greatest day of your life …. . You become 21. Even the words sound like a ceremony. YOU BECOME 21. YESSSS!!!

But then you turn 30. Oooohh, what happened there? Makes you sound like bad milk! He TURNED; we had to throw him out. There’s no fun now, you’re Just a sour-dumpling. What’s wrong? What’s changed?

You BECOME 21, you TURN 30, then you’re PUSHING 40. Whoa! Put on the brakes, it’s all slipping away. Before you know it, you REACH 50 and your dreams are gone.

But wait!!! You MAKE it to 60. You didn’t think you would!

So you BECOME 21, TURN 30, PUSH 40, REACH 50 and MAKE it to 60.

You’ve built up so much speed that you HIT 70! After that it’s a day-by-day thing; you HIT Wednesday!

You get into your 80’s and every day is a complete cycle; you HIT lunch; you TURN 4:30 ; you REACH bedtime. And it doesn’t end there Into the 90s, you start going backwards; ‘I Was JUST 92.’

Then a strange thing happens. If you make it over 100, you become a little kid again. ‘I’m 100 and a half!’
May you all make it to a healthy 100 and a half!!

HOW TO STAY YOUNG

1. Throw out nonessential numbers. This includes age, weight and height. Let the doctors worry about them. That is why you pay ‘them’

2. Keep only cheerful friends. The grouches pull you down.

3. Keep learning. Learn more about the computer, crafts, gardening, whatever. Never let the brain idle. ‘An idle mind is the devil’s workshop.’ And the devil’s name is Alzheimer’s.

4. Enjoy the simple things.

5. Laugh often, long and loud. Laugh until you gasp for breath.

6. The tears happen. Endure, grieve, and move on. The only person, who is with us our entire life, is ourselves. Be ALIVE while you are alive.

7. Surround yourself with what you love , whether it’s family, pets, keepsakes, music, plants, hobbies, whatever. Your home is your refuge.

8. Cherish your health: If it is good, preserve it. If it is unstable, improve it. If it is beyond what you can improve, get help.

9. Don’t take guilt trips. Take a trip to the mall, even to the next county; to a foreign country but NOT to where the guilt is.

10. Tell the people you love that you love them, at every opportunity.

AND ALWAYS REMEMBER :
Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.

And if you don’t send this to at least 8 people – who cares? But do share this with someone. We all need to live life to its fullest each day!!
Carlin

Thank You For Being a Part of Our UNO Success! May 28, 2009

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Ageless Dreamer would like to thank all our members and supporters of our unique mission for their time, help, and inspiring attitude at our recent EAT for the DREAM event at Uno Chicago Grill  on May 12.   Special thanks to Ellie White and her co-workers from Measured Progress; Brenda Clement and friends for their recently formed Dream Savers group to Fundraise for the Dream;  Martee Crowley (Murals & More By Martee) who generously donated hand-painted wine glasses for the silent auction; Abby Deely  who reminded others to call in for Take Out orders; fellow Rotarians; friends from Foster’s Daily Democrat; faithful Board Members; and  Riverside Rest Home for providing the transportation for  Lura Johnson – who will turn 103 years old at the end of May.

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Ellie W. and her mother, Lura J., now...

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Your energetic presence and encouragement had a generous impact on the success of this friend and fundraising event. On behalf of those who continue to dream out loud, we extend deep appreciation from the bottom of our ageing toes for all your efforts. We sure enjoyed doing it with you! 

 

 

 

Board Member Peter W. and Dreamer Ruth K. Now and Then.

Board Member Peter W. and Dreamer Ruth K. Now and Then.

 

 

 

Riverside Rest Home Van

Riverside Rest Home Van

40 Yrs Later: The 7 Children In ‘The Sound of Music’ May 26, 2009

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‘The Sound of Music’ won the Academy Award for Best Picture of 1965 and is one of the most popular musicals ever produced.
Remember the 7 children of the Trapp family?
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They were having a reunion after 40 years.
And all were looking healthy and amazingly well…
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NOW CURRENTLY…

It wouldn’t be funny if it weren’t so true… Julie Andrews turned 69 and to commemorate her 69th birthday on October 1, actress/vocalist Julie Andrews made a special appearance at Manhattan’s Radio City Music Hall for the benefit of the AARP. One of the musical numbers she performed was “My Favourite Things” from the legendary movie “The Sound Of Music.” Please share Ms. Andrews’ clever wit �and humour with others who would appreciate it.

Here are the actual lyrics she used:

Maalox and nose drops and needles for knitting,
Walkers and handrails and new dental fittings,
Bundles of magazines tied up in string,
These are a few of my favourite things.
Cadillac’s and cataracts, and hearing aids and glasses,
Polident and Fixodent and false teeth in glasses,
Pacemakers, golf carts and porches with swings,
These are a few of my favourite things..
When the pipes leak, When the bones creak,
When the knees go bad,
I simply remember my favourite things,
And then I don’t feel so bad.
Hot tea and crumpets and corn pads for bunions,
No spicy hot food or food cooked with onions,
Bathrobes and heating pads and hot meals they bring,
These are a few of my favourite things.
Back pains, confused brains, and no need for sinnin’,
Thin bones and fractures and hair that is thinnin’,
And we won’t mention our short, shrunken frames,
When we remember our favourite things.
When the joints ache, When the hips break,
When the eyes grow dim,
Then I remember the great life I’ve had,
And then I don’t feel so bad.

Ms. Andrews received a standing ovation from the crowd that lasted over four minutes and repeated encores.