Riding a Harley in Heaven November 3, 2009
Posted by Ageless Dreamer Foundation in Ageless Dreamer.Tags: 100 years old, Ageless Dreamer, Harley, Harley Davidison, heaven, Lura Johnson
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Live for the ride. That was Lura Johnson’s motto when she turned 100 years old in 2006 and for her next couple birthdays. But it was her 100 and 101st birthdays that produced her signature smile and wave: Lura was a passenger in the sidecar of a Harley! Thanks to her daughter who remembered to ask her Mom if she had a dream, and the help of Ageless Dreamer, Lura’s ageless dream came true and she was one happy gal. On November 1, 2009 Lura decided, at 103, that she was ready to ride a Harley in heaven and we trust she is. To Motorcycle MaMa J.: Thanks for sharing your spirit and believing that you’re really never too old to dream. Ride on, smile on, and wave to us in our dreams!
Lura famous smile and wave
Beautiful Dreamer: Yes, awake unto me October 25, 2009
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Do you remember the words to the song Beautiful Dreamer by Stephen Foster? (July 4, 1826 – January 13, 1864) Beautiful Dreamer written by Stephen Collins Foster 1862 If you do, hum along and read the words. Quite magical and beautiful tune.
Beautiful dreamer, wake unto me,
Starlight and dewdrops are waiting for thee
Sounds of the rude world heard in the day,
Lulled by the moonlight have all passed away
Beautiful dreamer, queen of my song,
List while I woo thee with soft melody
Gone are the cares of life’s busy throng,
Beautiful dreamer, awake unto me
Beautiful dreamer, out on the sea
Mermaids are counting the wild lorelie
Over the streamlet vapors are borne,
Waiting to fade at the bright coming morn
Beautiful dreamer, beam on my heart,
E’en as the morn on the streamlet and sea
Then will all clouds of sorrow depart
Beautiful dreamer, awake unto me
Beautiful dreamer, awake unto me
Beautiful dreamer, awake unto me
One War, One Wife, Five Daughters October 15, 2009
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Did I ever tell you about my parents? Dad’s 91 in March and Mom’s 88 in December. Are you ready for this? They’ll be married 67 years come May 2010. Can you imagine? Phew. I don’t know how she did it accept she encouraged him to go deep sea fishing almost every weekend when we were growing up. The “we” is five daughters – all Baby Boomers. And we only had ONE bathroom! Yes, you read that right: Five girls (plus Mom) and ONE bathroom. We lived in a cape cod style home that Mom and Dad built in Massachusetts, before it was taken by eminent domain by the state, just after their first mortgage burning party. Not a happy time when the bridge over Lake Quinsigamond was built and POOF both our house and my grandparents next door lost their properties. Oh sure, they got a little bit of money — something like $ 19,000. before legal fees. But that’s another story.
This one is about tomorrow. My husband and I are taking Mom and Dad to Washington, DC to cross one more item off their bucket list. An Army Vet, Dad dreams of seeing the WWII Memorial and Arlington National Cemetary. Mom dreams of Dad having his dream. So we go for four days down memory lane — rain or shine. I’m bringing an umbrella and Flip Video to document Dad’s experience with his first, and most likely, last visit to see the Memorial that was built to honor all the Vet’s from WWII. It will be an emotional time, I’m sure.
By the way: the second and last home they still live in also has only ONE bathroom. Maybe there’s a lesson to be learned from that, although I don’t know what it might be. Please let me know if you have any ideas.
Stay Young :) September 17, 2009
Posted by Ageless Dreamer Foundation in Fun Stuff :).Tags: Alzheimer's, grouches, guilt, health, laugh, love, tears, time, young
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We all need to read this one over and over until it becomes part of who we are !
HOW TO STAY YOUNG
1. Try everything twice.
On one woman’s tombstone she said she wanted this epitaph:
“Tried everything twice, loved it both times!”
2. Keep only cheerful , positive friends.
The grouches pull you down.
(Keep this in mind if you are one of those grouches!)
3. Keep learning:
Learn more about the computer, crafts, gardening, whatever.
Never let the brain get idle. ‘An idle mind is the devil’s workshop..’
And the devil’s name is Alzheimer’s!
4. Enjoy the simple things.
5. Laugh often, long and loud.
Laugh until you gasp for breath.
And if you have a friend who makes you laugh,
Spend lots and lots of time with HIM/HER.
6.. The tears happen:
Endure, grieve, and move on.
The only person who is with us our entire life, is ourselves.
LIVE while you are alive..
7. Surround yourself with what you love:
Whether it’s family, pets, keepsakes, music, plants, hobbies, whatever.
Your home is your refuge.
8. Cherish your health:
If it is good, preserve it.
If it is unstable, improve it.
If it is beyond what you can improve, get help.
9. Don’t take guilt trips.
Take a trip to the mall, even to the next county, to a foreign country,
but NOT to where the guilt is.
10. Tell the people you love that you love them, at every opportunity.
I love you, my special friend.
11. Forgive now those who made you cry. You might not get a second chance.
And if you don’t send this to at least 4 people – who cares?
But do share this with someone.
Remember! Lost time can never be found.
Be kinder than necessary, for everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle.
The Secret of Life according to Philharmonic Conductor Ben Zander September 14, 2009
Posted by Ageless Dreamer Foundation in Books.Tags: A, ageless, Ageless Dreamer, Ben Zander, Benjamin Zander, secret of life, Taiwanese, The Art of Possibility, universe of possibility, zander
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Yes, I’m hooked on the book: The Art of Possibility. I keep finding the brilliant nuggets that keep bringing me back to how it relates to Ageless Dreamer. Ben writes about a Taiwanese student who, “in a brilliant flash”, had hit upon the secret of life. This student realized that the “labels he had been taking so seriously are human inventions — it’s all a game.” The student explained it this way: “I was number 68 out of 70 student. I come to Boston and Mr. Zander says I am an A. Very confusing. I walk about, three weeks, very confused. I am Number 68, but Mr. Zander says I am an A student….I am Number 68, but Mr. Zander says I am an A. One day I discover much happier A than Number 68. So I decide I am an A.”
And so today, I am going to give the idea of Ageless Dreamer an A. A great big giant A. If it’s all invented anyway, I’m going to choose to invent something that, as Ben Zander says, “brightens our life and the lives of the people around us.” It may be that Ageless Dreamer is re-inventing itself so that it will spring board up, instead of spiral down — as he calls it. In the “university of possibility, you set the context and let life unfold.” That’s exactly what I intend to do with Ageless Dreamer.
Thank you, Ben!
Assumptions about Old Age challenged by Benjamin Zander September 12, 2009
Posted by Ageless Dreamer Foundation in Books.Tags: ageless, Ageless Dreamer, assumptions about old age, Elizabeth Coatsworth, Jewish, Nursing Homes, senior, The Art of Possibility, When I dream I'm Ageless
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That’s where Ageless Dreamer and The Art of Possibility naturally come together. In his book, The Art of Possibility, Ben Zander writes about a talk he was invited to give at a Jewish home for the elderly (pg.64). When he arrived at the rather dingy hall 10 minutes before he was to begin only one person was sitting in the fifth row of a bank of folding chairs. The woman, Sarah, chatted with him for a moment and he asked her to move up to a seat nearer the front. Sarah declared: “I always sit here.” Ben good-naturedly challenged her, saying, “who knows, Sarah, if you change your seat maybe something new will happen today.”
“Are you crazy? At my age? I’m eighty-three!” By now, Ben writes, she was standing, and, as if to prove him wrong, she actually moved, from the fifth row to the fourth. After wondering if anyone else would be coming to hear him speak the remaining chairs gradually filled and shortly after he scheduled time to begin a sizable group was ready to begin. It turns out, Sarah was by no means the oldest; one member of the audience was 103. The topic was “New Possibilities”.
Ben shared some heartfelt stories about his Father and his wonderful sense of humor. The audience laughed and sang with him “igniting the air in the once-dingy room.” And this is where I yellow highlighted another sentence he wrote: “We challenged assumptions about old age and pointed toward some new beginnings.” So does Ageless Dreamer.
That’s what Ageless Dreamer, since January 2006, has been working to do – challenge assumptions about old age. Encourage our oldest generation to dream out loud and remind caregivers and adult children to engage them in conversations that enhance their quality of life. And, as author Elizabeth Coatsworth wrote when she was in her eighties, “When I dream, I am ageless.” So am I.
The Art of Possibility and Ageless Dreamer Go Together like a Fluffanutter September 10, 2009
Posted by Ageless Dreamer Foundation in Books.Tags: Ageless Dreamer, Art of Possibility, Benjamin Zander, Book, care-givers, Rosamund Stone Zander, The Art of Possibility
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Oh my gosh, I’ve been reading the book by Rosamund Stone Zander and her husband/Conductor Benjamin Zander: The Art of Possibility and the first practice – It’s All Invented – begins like this:
A shoe factory sends two marketing scouts to a region of Africa to study the prospects for expanding business. One sends back a telegram saying,
SITUATION HOPELESS STOP NO ONE WEARS SHOES
Th other writes back triumphantly,
GLORIOUS BUSINESS OPPORTUNITY STOP THEY HAVE NO SHOES
How does this relate to Ageless Dreamer you might ask? If I change the word SHOES to DREAMS it helps me realize this non profit is on the right track reminding caregivers and adult children to encourage our oldest generation to dream out loud. The author “had me” in the first paragraph of the first chapter. To some, who see no shoes (DREAMS), all the evidence, as he says, points to hopelessness. To others, the same conditions point to aubundance and possibility. He ends the paragraph as follows: ”Each scout comes to the scene with his own perspective; each returns telling a different tale. Indeed, all of life comes to us in a narrative form; it’s a story we tell.”
So if I use me, the Founder of Ageless Dreamer, as an example, and I’m open to shifting my underlying assumptions (page 15), I would ask myself the questions he poses:
What assumptions am I making,
That I’m not aware I’m making,
That gives me what I see?
That is not an easy question, but I’m working on the answer so that I can work on “What might I now invent, That I haven’t yet invented, That would give me other choices?”
USA-GIVES and GIVES and GIVES August 8, 2009
Posted by Ageless Dreamer Foundation in Ageless Dreamer.Tags: Ageless Dreamer, donations, endowment, non-profit, USA, usa gives
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An amazing idea was born almost a year ago by a couple on the Seacoast. USA-GIVES believes that a million people in this great country will give $ 5. or $ 10. each to a non profit to build an endowment. The definition of an endowment is also shown on their website. Well, looks like USA-GIVES is doing just that for Ageless Dreamer. You can check out their website www.USA-GIVES.com and their new blog! Thank YOU, USA-GIVES!!
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